I failled horribly...

[Denver_2010]

FOBD - I am concerned that you are reacting out of pain right now. Listen, I told you that your W's physical move from the house was going to be bad. The finality of it hits home like nothing else. I know. Take some time to get used to what has happened. Then see where you and your emotions are.

I agree with MJ in that you shouldn't jump to the conclusion that this was a set up. I continue to think that your two previous contacts with W are more of a reflection of her feelings than what you experienced this weekend. You thought about and prepared for what was going to happen and how you were going to act. Do you not think that she did the same? Do you believe that her behavior was not a result of her preparation? Could she have made it through this move if she had felt any of the emotion that she demonstrated when the two of you had contact before? I don't think so. Neither did she.

The W that you love so much is not 'dead'... she is there somewhere. She is scared and confused. Do you want to be there when she comes back?

When you took your vows, did you mean "in good times and in bad" or did you mean only until your W became lost and scared?

Remember, this takes TIME AND PATIENCE. Is your W worth it? The W that you desperately wanted back only a few days ago, is SHE worth it? Only you can answer that question FOBD.

Just some thoughts man... I know that it is tough.

BITS!
Denver