young couple with waw

[Queen_of_Swords]

It's been four days since you posted and no reply. How discouraged you must feel.

This board doesn't get a lot of traffic friend. Try reposting it over at Newcomers.
In the meantime, even though I'm a newcomer myself. Here are the things you can do right now.
First breathe deeply, focus on the feeling of the air filling your lungs and releasing it fully...do it until you gain some measure of calm.

What your wife does is out of your hands, accept it and put it out of your mind. Do not torture youself with mights and maybes and speculation. It will only jack up your anxiety and adrenaline levels, and affect your ability to sleep. That you don't need! You need calm and collected, not frantic.

What is in your hands is you and your reactions.
Go read the Divorce Remedy thread, first chapter and synopsis of the seven steps.
Go out and get Divorce Remedy. I too had Divorce Busters and thought it would help me, it has but I've since found out a few things that make it a limited resource for me.

Start DBing at step one.