Shaves,
Be careful of that hug request. Do you know why she asked? She wanted to hear you say that you wanted it. Your recent changes may have her wondering. So, she offers physical contact to see what your level of desire is for it. So, next time she asks you if you want a hug, smile, look her in the eyes and give her this reply, "Do you want to give me one?" You see, know she has to admit that she wants the contact. Be prepared, you could get a bunch of different answers. But at least you not having to openly admit you want contact and giving her the feeling that she can control the physical contact in your R. Do you agree?

B.I.T.S.

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...