Hang in there, Lost. Sounds like you are still doing great. Yes, be careful of the family and friends that want a quick fix. My grandmother calls me quite a bit and asks me, of all people, why I haven't made more of an effort to patch things up. I don't think she fully understands that my W did the walking, not me. She is old fashioned and doesn't realize that in this day and age, women will also do some of the walking. In her day, it was always the man.

Anyway, I just wanted to say "hey" and tell you to push on. I like where you are headed. I hope to be there soon too. Take care!

B.I.T.S.

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...