I'm all in favor of calling over TMing or emailing, but in this circumstance, IMO, it sounds like you are falling for a trap... to be drawn into a fight. That is what she wants 2step. It will validate her wish for D.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce