Well, got served my papers today. This after she agreed to a last chance counseling try and if it didn't work, divorce mediation. Instead, I'm now being sued for divorce. Nice.

Got home from work and she went for a run. Gone about 30-40 minutes. Gets home and after about 5 min, goes upstairs. A few seconds later, the door bell rings. Served. As I walk upstairs she asked me who it was. I told her she didn't have to be mad at her lawyer anymore, I just got the papers. She says "what? I'm surprised." Then a minute later - "I'm sorry - I didn't know".

Even though I knew this might be coming, it sure did take my breath away. I acted real hard to look like it didn't bother me, but I swear I was one second away from a panic attack!

Worse part is this came after a great weekend. We did a few things together, went shopping together, she did a few nice, considerate things for me (guilt?), we had a really, really nice weekend. Then this. Ouch.