Got a text from W tonight and this is how the conversation went.....
W "Hey I got a question for ya" Me "sure. Whats up?" W "I got the D paperwork...But did u send it all? There is nothing signed and it isn't notarized" M "The paper you got is not signed or notarized?" (I must of sent the wrong copy. That was 100% a mistake) "I only got 4 pages 1 was a letter from your attorney (I assumed that was for me the other was a paper telling me my rights and two copies of the same paper which was you intent to divorce. I sent it but I had them both notarized. I'll send the others sorry for the delay"
W I'll ask my attorney....U should have received a waiver to sign and send back... The letter should have explained what to do..At lest the copy I receieved did"
M "what's the waiver for?"
W And no what u send me was a copy...Did you read anything??"
M "Yeah I read it. I'll sign everything and send it all back"
W "Ur doing this on purpose"
M "I got two papers that where the same I assumed one was mine and the other was yours. I'm not trying to hold u up from living your life, I promise. You'll have the rest in a few days. I am not doing anything on purpose?
W "Ok (Name) do whatever....Didn't the attorney send an envelope te send them back? I can't do anything with them but take them to the attorney. But ur playing games so....I know u too well and know when ur playing innocent and playing dumb..."
What should I respond.......
Are you going to be able to convince her that this was an honest mistake? You know your W. I'm guessing that you won't be able to. IMO you shouldn't allow yourself to be drawn into this disagreement any more than you already have.
I'd just respond by saying "it was a mistake. I apologize. You'll have the paperwork in a few days." And no more.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce