Peace, I think your sitch is one of the most painful. I do hope that your X reaches out to your kids at least. I believe that kids carry that rejection with them.

Trusting, If he really wanted to be the first to take you there, then he would be, you know?

I think your X shows signs of maturity, but they are vague and not followed with action yet. I have had small flashes of maturity, but they are weak and not enough to make X attractive.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D