Thank you Bea - I welcome all opinions, they make me think. You know how it is, some days you are sure that you know what you want and next day you are feeling differently...well at least me anyway...

I'm finding that lately I feel totally detached from H, like I don't even care anymore and those are the times when I just want it over with and to move on. I've been feeling like this for a while now...And I can't move on until we sort out our SA...even if I wanted to start another relationship, how can I?....I still have joint bank accounts with H and we work in the same business...what decent guy would want to start a relationship like that...I'm a married woman...not even legally separated...so yeah...I better sort it all out first, before I decide anything about any romantic involvement

(((hugs Bea)))

Absolutely nothing new to report, H is away with OW for 10 days...of course he didn't even tell me that he is leaving...found out through D....nice business partner, right?


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO