Sorry Denver. That is an awful moment that I have been bracing myself for as well.

But, what I think .... it that all that is HER problem. She has to find her way and you can't show her the way. You can control what you do. You and I have both screwed up before ... and we know how bad it feels to look at yourself in the mirror when you're the screw up. Well, now the WAW is screwing up. We are holding strong ... and we will make SOMEBODY a wonderful partner when we choose that .... but we are in control of who that is and when it is. We are doing this and hoping for our marriage because we want to ... in fact THEY would rather we just fought and cried and divorced them. You're the boss.


B.I.T.S

Formerly known as onStepAtATime
Me:31 W:31
T:13 yrs M:8 yrs
D: 20 months
ILYBNILWY: 9/22/10
"I want a separation" 1/05/11