uhhhh, good question. I didn't do it much before the bomb. All that kind of faded through the years. Now I want to say it again, but these moments feel really fake between us right now.
If you have always said it in the past, and really mean it, I would keep doing it, definately. Unless some veteran has a different idea about this?
I don't believe it makes much difference if the card is joint or not. We are married. Debt is debt. Maybe I am wrong, but when my dad got divorced my mom had cards in her name only that he had no idea existed, he still had to pay for half after divorce.
H-40 W-38 Together-20 Married-12 boy-7 girl-3 bomb-9/17/10 No papers live together No affair