I wasn't really getting at anything, I was just being stupid.
Don't be changing who you are for her idiotic fantasy's. You know better than that.
Today she wants a cowboy, so you buy a hat, Tomorrow she has a thing for clowns, then what? A rainbow wig?
About my W saying she is not interested in any men? Your W said that to? Sh*t, I thought that was something original by her. Do they take a class for this cr*p?
No kidding eh? It's like they are acting, and they gotten the same script from the director and they all are auditioning for the same part.
I'm literally amazed constantly how many times I read updates from any of BITS members and see my own sitch or someone else's W acting/saying the same way as mine.
...but again that's how I know we can get our W back. I told her numerous times, I don't want our old M, I want us to identify ALL of the issues and do the hard work to have a good, happy fullfilling M for both of us.
My W has said to me at least 50 times, "I know what you WANT, but doesn't anyone care what I WANT?" I'm listening - now let's be constructive here. I know you can do it hun.
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011
