Lighthouse lit till WAW comes out of fog.

[ScaredinCanada]

Oh my gawd! To think I was getting frustrasted that our CC was about to hit $10000. I think it'a time to cut up the "joint card" and tell her that she should get her OWN card. I'm glad we don't have that issue, my W has always been great with money.

Dude, no worries about the physical connection. Other than the lame lay there sex on Christmas, the 3 minutes dance at my brothers wedding there has been no physical contact in 3 months.

Although the other night when we were going to bed, and R talk came up. I was still up brushing my teeth and W said something silly I disagreed with and rushed out of the bathroom and smacked her on butt - I got a realy sly sexy smile from her. She told me not to do that...but I could tell she liked. Not that it really helped me much - just means she's missing physical contact as much as me.

Ya I need to re-focus again. Just act normal with the kids, interact positively with the W, and avoid conflict or personal conversation. I think I'll get the girls to bed and watch a movie.

I'm wondering, do you still say good night to your W or tell her to "drive safe" or "have a good night at work" when she leaves? Should I keep doing these things, or should I stop?