Scared and Alone

[JR09]

Lost,

You are right. People who see your pain want to find a solution to make you feel better. Some advocate divorce, others want you to rush into bandaging the R quickly, etc. I know the feeling. Many friends ask me to cut loose and move on with my life.

Only you know when it is right for you to move on. But until then, keep DBing, take care of yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Change yourself outwardly and innwardly. Be the best New You. Remember, if you change, he will eventually change as well...

Joel