So good to hear you are doing well. I understand a lot of the uncertainity with H b/c I definitely feel that as well. I'm dealing with his deep depression too, but I'm just wondering how it will all turn out. But like you said - all one step at a time. For you, just continuing to move forward with the D and living your life and if anything should change, you can start from there (but you're right, MC is always an excellent start should things change).
It's defintely tought with our S's too. A lot of the things your S says and does are the same things my S does. I feel bad for H when he wants to be involved with S and S wants nothing to do with him (I keep hearing the same "no talk" or "no, mommy do it" too), but it's kind of like, what do you expect. There's consequences for one's actions. They've chosen not to be really involved in their lives, so our S's are not really attached to them. They just miss out on so much though. S kept doing the cutest things this weekend and I just kept thing, how could anyone ever miss this? S just kept making my heart smile. =)
Good luck on the science fair!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
