DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support 2

[ScaredinCanada]

I hear you Punchy. I've suspected an EA (mostly because I believe a lot of people who have EA's think they are doing nothing wrong).

Problem is for me, I just don't think my W has the oppurtunity. She hates technology (always been an issue because I work in IT), she doesn't have e-mail or facebook, she doesn't own a cell phone and there's a better chance my 2 year old could text then my W.

She is a waitress, and she works with generally very young people - I don't believe that she would be involved in anything with these people. She doesn't take breaks - she's at home with kids or at work. She almost never goes out by herself.

As I've explained a few times in the past originally my W cheated on me when we were engaged to married the first time ovwer 10 years ago - she's told me that's a mistake she made that she'll never make again.

We'll see, it's in the back of my mind. It's really not good for me to think about it regardless because it just causes me to become emotional.