Lighthouse lit till WAW comes out of fog.

[ScaredinCanada]

I'm literally at the same point, and anytime she initiates R talk I take it to mean she's ready to "work on us", but really she just wants a question answered or to get something off her chest. I need to just listen and validate and try not to "add something" to the convo.

So easy to say, so tough to do in the moment.

I can see she's in limbo (and I hate to think about it, because it has such a negative conectation), I have to find in myself to let her really comeback to me.

Will see about booking MC at the end of this week, for appointment sometime next week.

Habit, how do you really go about detaching while living together? I need to deal with her EVERYDAY, about the kids, bills, etc. I can do it at times, but we are still so connected - without having a personal relationship that I keep wanting to get that connection back (although she told me on Friday night that on top of the fact that she hasn't been in love for me for a long time, she believes we've never truly been
connected to each other").

BAH.

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