Newbie- Very Lost- Not Sure where to start

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Jack,
thanks for the response, I haven't said I love you in weeks, but I do still call her "Hun", and tell her she looks good, etc.. I already read the first chapter of Divorce Remedy, just waiting for my actual copy to arrive. One thing I have learned by going through this before, I don't know much, and always have to keep learning in order to have any chance. She brought up the D, as a result of not wanting to live "in flux" again, we did that last year for 6 or 7 months. Although, she has not gone anywhere, told me to move to the basement, and sleeps down there with me every night on the other couch?? Go figure, not sure what to make of that. I have spent hours reading this board since I discovered it last week, one thing I have found that we are certainly not the only ones going through this type of situation, thanks for the support and suggestions.