Hey! How have you been? I see from your last post still no papers. Your H's L must be more incompetent than my H's.
I know you are facing another week waiting for papers to arrive, one way or another. At least you are steeling yourself up for them. Remember, it's only a piece of paper. And while it hurts, it doesn't change a thing, girlfriend.
Not to throw a glitch in your plans, but if H is major breadwinner, and you've been separated over six months, you have the right to file single. My tax lady says I may even get some Earned Income Credit back. The filing jointly only helps HIM in most cases.
Try to have a great week. Sometimes I have to look up at the heavens and just say "Thank you, God", if for nothing else, than for the beautiful day. Somehow, it helps me. ((HUGS))
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011