Trusting

I am so glad to see that some of the MLCers have a sort of awakening
I have no word about my xh still, my timeline is about the same as yours and forwards, so Im hoping maybe he will "wake UP" and at least begin to talk to the kids again...
Im not sure why they are surprized that we would eventually date again
Maybe time stops for them and they expect everything to be the same..maybe they realize their mistakes when the paIN IS SO GREAT AND ESCApe isnt opional anymore
I think as we have read in books and if we speak to MLC ers who pass thru the crises, some may honestly admit the mistake
not sure if the xh would honestly admit it to wife ..But I have spoken to women who say their xh eventually tried to come back years later..usually too late
please keep us posted...
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow