H in crisis and self medicating with OW

[awest1217]

It is always good to have a common project for you and H to do together. After you move, it might be good to come up with some activity or hobby that you two can share. It is important to have your one individual activities, but is there an interest you both share that you can do once a week or once a day. Something like yoga, going to the gym (which can help H's depression) or something like taking a college class together like creative writing, or volunteer somewhere, etc. anything that you will keep you working together and to have a common ground to talk about.

Glad things are going well and that H is getting the help he needs. Keep going day by day and if you do something that is abrasive don't beat yourself up because everyone is human, but say you are sorry. Keep up the great work!