You and H have both changed a lot over the time that you were apart so could it be true that neither of you know each other? I mean really know each other?
It is good to let him know about you because even something as simple as you likes and dislikes have probably changed over the time you were apart and H needs to relearn who you are, and you have to learn to he is as well. Communication is always hard, but try to talk to H and let him know how you feel, what you want, your dreams, etc.
You are one awesome and strong woman. You have done so much and come so far and it is just great to see.
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