Hi Sarahini,

This is total MLC script. I know this from my own W who has said

the same thing. He has to say this because he does not want to

lose you and he wants to see how his fantasy life will work out

first. That is why he wants to work on it SLOWLY. He does not

want to give anything up on both sides.

I really am sorry that you are going through this and I also see

from your signature dates that you have just started this

journey. It is a very long journey and as you read more and more

you will see that others that have been where you are now and

none of this is easy.

That is exactly why you must continue to work on yourself.

Then you will be fine no matter which way this goes.

The idea is to outlast the MLC. That is going to take

everything you got within you and the truth is, you don't

know that you have what it takes to make it through.

I think you have what it takes. Simply being here on this

site shows that you do have it within you to make it

on this journey which has now become your journey that you did

not ask for.

Originally Posted By: sarahani

Is this a good thing or is he messing with my head...I just don't know what to think anymore! I'm so tired.


So I truly get what you are saying up here ^^^^.

The MLC'r will say things that will make your head spin

BUT if you know that it is MLC fog talking then you at least

can find some peace in knowing that fact.

That will not be the last R talk you have with H.

There will be more like that and you are going to have

to show that you are strong each time. No man is going to

want to give up a strong confident woman. He will not see that

in you unless you do the work for yourself.

Seems a little unfair doesn't it? Your going to have to trust me

on this that even though you might feel it is unfair, it will

help you find out who Sarahini is. You would not get this

opportunity if you did not have this situation happen to you.

So, you know a lot of this already, TIME is now something you

have. It is how you plan on using it through this that will

make or break what you are to reap from this experience.

WS