DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support 2

[Scared2Def]

I am in the exact same boat only my wife says she does not want another relationship. She just wants to be on her own. I guess she thinks working and the kids going to school and coming home alone is ok? Weird to me because if she would just accept me and my changes this could all be ok. I understand she does not trust that I will adhere to my changes but she seems un willing to want to give me one more try. I understand that too but for our kids I would think anything would be worth the effort. Right now she is only thinking of herself.

Scared your wife sounds the same right now, she is only thinking about what can make her happy and she is not looking in front of her at what she could have in you. Just lay back give her a break from R talk, give it a week and see if that helps. I say dig deep in your gut and try for a week.