Originally Posted By: Denver
I know that I am going to be in this state of pain until either, I can truly detach with love, or until my W forces closure by forcing a D.


Your W can force a D but that is only forcing a piece of paper on you.

Closure?

Or anything else for that matter.

Is up to you.

Once you understand that you are in control and you TAKE control...

then your fears and doubts will diminish along with the pain you feel from the actions or inactions of your W.

Keep steppin'

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am