It's my understanding that to be in Piecing...both are willing to work at rebuilding the M. So, if your W has not said anything about staying, working, rebuilding, whatever...I would not consider it piecing. She is just going through the motions of getting through each day, and that's about all.
So, being in the LRT, you do things a bit differently. This is a woman who may decide to leave without a word of notice. This is a woman who is mentally depressed and fogged out as a WAW. This is a person who you should not expect any responses from any of your actions. It is as if she is dead on the inside.
The last thing you need to do is try to get her in a R talk. I understand how frustrating it is when your S don't talk. Believe me, I know!
I always thought that talking things out was how you solve problems, but some people do not agree, so how or what do you do then?
You just start living as if you are okay. You are working things out in your life. You do not "have" to have talks about the MR in order to continue going forward.
Listen, if this woman wants to keep things buried or pent up inside of her.....what can you do about it? If you try to force her to get it out, that's not going to work. I've been there....I know.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
