What should I do?

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Forrest,

I am used to you being doggedly determined to challenge people to find reasons to stay married, so this is feeling like a Twilight Zone episode.

I'm never comfortable telling people what to do, rather get them to think and figure out a path for themself.

You're posting here, so there is still something in you that feels it is worth the effort, I think.

I'll give you the advice an old vet who has helped alot of people think so highly of he uses it in his signature:

Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

It might seem glib, it's not intended that way Forrest, it is and always has been good advice.