Sorry To hear about this crushed.

You are not alone. I have traveled the same road as you.

Sometimes things have to get worse before they get better.

I did not like that possibility either but it becomes a reality.

It may be that she is moving forward but not in a way that you

would consider moving forward.

When you say she has lived in her fantasy for too long, that

means you had expectations on where she should be in her journey.

It won't be your timeframe. You must go back to no expectations.

Continue to work on yourself. That IS THE ONLY WAY.

WS