What randomness! Remember how my wife sent the car to the dealership for maintenance? Well, when she got it home, I noticed that the front emblem/badge was missing (my guess it was stolen while parked in their lot overnight). Anyway, my wife hollers up to my room and said she thinks the front badge is missing. I said it was probably stolen. She said now it looks junky or something to that effect. And I told her that cheap ones can be bought on eBay for next to nothing. And then she said - here's the clincher - now why do I want to do that?
One moment she mentions the car looks junky without it, but then she doesn't care to get a replacement? Say what?!?
Fairly new here, but off the top of my head this scenario reminds me of two things I read in DR:
1. Don't sweat the small stuff. It sounds like she may have been looking to pick a fight with you or find a reason to get mad at you. Sounds like you didn't give her one....which is good.
2. Only believe half of what your angry spouse is saying to you. Since she has that wall up, she's going to say a lot of things she normally wouldn't...you can't get provoked by them, which you didn't, but you also need to work on letting things slide internally. Just know that she's in an altered stated right now, and write it off as such when she says things like that.
BITS M: 35 W: 35 T14, M11 D9, S6 ILYBINILY: June 09 Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11 W came home: 3/17/11 EE: July 2012 Dropped the rope: Oct 2012 Piecing: April 2013 Not piecing: April 2014 Stuck.
