That would be open for discussion. She has "grown" into the caring mother. That is what is important. When I am "lacking" there is the issue. I am not sure that is a great "judge" of what our family should be. We differ a bit on what the "family" should be.
"Must you both grow the at the same rate and in the same direction and see things the same way?"
No. But if she thinks she has left me behind.. I am not sure how to change that. If you think it.. you are making movements to "encourage" that thought.
"You "think" you've grown too?"
Maybe. My perspective has changed. To be honest I am tired of playing this silly game. After 17 years it should not be this hard.
"All it takes is one of you to make that choice; in which case the other then has no choice - like murder. I would question it even it both of you made the choice - like murder-suicide. They even say its good for the kids."
FB2.. have you been drinking?
Stop trying to prove a point and get in the game. Give me something I can work with. Your hostility towards me is very apparent.. and I understand it to a point. But it is somewhat.. well.. time wasting. I enjoy it.. but I feel like I could use my time wore wisely. I am sure D4MIL is wondering why I did not respond to her second post.
You keep posting here.. I like it.. just not sure where it is going.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
