Well, I skyped with the kids tonight and had a really good time with them. W was kind of in and out of the room as I was talking to them and reading them bedtime stories, and I managed to resist trying to talk to her at all. After we got off the video call I sent a text to tell her that I'm going to come out to see the kids from Feb 4th-8th, and she said that'd be great. I agree with FOBD...i'm going to have to DB my *ss off while I'm there...if I can pull it off, I think she'll be pretty shocked. I know she'll definitely be watching me closely....
Today was a pretty good day...I think this detaching thing is actually starting to work like its supposed to...I can tell she's a bit confused now that I'm not giving her any reason to get mad at me. She is not warming up to me at all, but I just had the feeling she's starting to at least consider tackling her inner demons. Actually a pretty good feeling. Now I need to keep the momentum going.
BITS M: 35 W: 35 T14, M11 D9, S6 ILYBINILY: June 09 Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11 W came home: 3/17/11 EE: July 2012 Dropped the rope: Oct 2012 Piecing: April 2013 Not piecing: April 2014 Stuck.