Some of what is happening is your fault. Stuff you should own and change if you care to.
What stuff?
Her complaints that hit home. The ones that sting you should look at.
My first thing to you is it took a while to get to where you are in the M and it won't be fixed over night.
This takes a lot of patience.
The good thing is you are here and there are some great people here to help you.
Originally Posted By: Navy
she had a very emotionally/physically abusive father.
The gift that keeps on giving...
Childhood trauma comes back in adulthood.
Navy - I am sorry to learn that you are here but this is a wonderful place for support and new friends.
TG - I found this part of your thread very fascinating because my H had an emotionally/physically abusive father. I don't want to hijack Navy's thread, but I would like to talk to you more about this. How can we do that?
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
