Originally Posted By: MrBond
Well if she sent you a message about the package, then respond back to her about it. I still say you should call. All this texting is giving me a headache.


Hey Next. I just wanted to chime in here. I think Bond is right. CALL HER. Stop doing the texts and emails. I know that it is hard. For the first month of my sitch the very thought of actually speaking to my W made me feel like I was back in H.S. getting ready to ask a girl out on a date! I was nervous. I still am. BUT, I have started using the phone to communicate with my W, and have actually had some personal contact this weekend which I will update on my thread. But I have found that the more you actually talk to her, the easier it becomes.... the less nervous I have becomes.

TM's and emails are so impersonal... she's not hearing your voice. I think that you need to do it in a non-pursuing way, but she also needs to hear your voice.

JMO

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Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce