Originally Posted By: habitacker
I spent about an hour with my dog. He is a german shepard that is afraid to go down steps. So I sit at the bottom of the steps, and he drops his ball down, and I throw it back up. WoW.

I felt like Steve McQueen in the movie the Great Escape. When he keeps getting thrown in the prison camp cooler, and bounces his baseball against the wall for months at a time just to occupy himself in prison. If anyone has seen the movie they would know what I am talking about.


That's funny! I feel like Robert Deniro's character in Cape Fear. At the beginning of the movie he is in his cell doing time, but he is working out and educating himself nonstop... so that he's prepared when he is paroled!

I feel like I'm doing 'bad husband' time. Unfortunately, I don't know if or when I get paroled. But I am going to do the same self improvement that Deniro did!!

Originally Posted By: habitacker
If she wants to come, which she usually does, what should I do? What if I tell her I would rather she doesn't? Or, if you are coming with, you need to be positive and get over this tense stuff around me, and try to be happy, otherwise you just make me tense, and that just ruins it for everybody. That is what I would love to say, but I am sure I will be told not to.

Well gonna stop there. Bring on another day.


I just wouldn't have invited her Habit. I mean are you two separated or not? Rhetorical question there. But that would be my mindset if I were in the same home as my W but we were 'separated'. You have to make her miss you. I think that inviting her is pursuing.

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Denver


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I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
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