My wife knocks on my room door (again) and tells me that she's deposited her loan money into a new account of her own. My wife wants to set up a time to discuss how to split the bills, et al. She also wants to continue discussion on how much to pay me for housekeeping "services".
I have a couple of questions:
1. Do I now take my wife's name off our current joint account? Or not a good idea? 2. Do I still refuse being paid for something I feel is principally wrong? Besides, it doesn't make any sense - she's paying me with her loan money to help pay for OUR bills.
I have a deep pocket for all y'all's 2 cents. Thanks in advance.
I think that those are both questions for a lawyer alamo. In the DB sense, I'd tell you not to do anything that is going to push her farther away. In other words, status quo IMO. But again, talk to a lawyer so that you also protect yourself here.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce