So once she divorces you then you want to set a boundary?
Has what you have been doing working?
Do some research on what women find attractive. Be that man.
Setting a boundery regarding OM backfired before. It made me look like an a$$ and she fled to the OM. Once there is D, I can "expose" EA and she loses the lovely home she took pride in decorating.
I'm getting served, so nothing has been working so far as I can tell since reading DR.
Women do find me attractive. I only know of one woman who doesn't. I have no esteem issues.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."