I am sooooooooooooo HAPPY that you had a great day. Girl, you so deserve it. And as far as those wedding rings go, your attitude couldn't be any more spot on.
Ugh, the dreaded C question. I wouldn't do it. A few things here: 1) Just like you said, you're talking about R when you are not supposed to 2) It could be considered pursuing 3) You are making such great strides without pressure that I would hate to see that all erased because your H feels some sort of pressure from you to do C.
Dixie, you are doing awesome and you have to feel so proud of yourself. You sound like you are glowing from your post today. Keep building on THAT.