Honestly FOBD, I'm surprised it took this long for you to crack. But can we please stop punching things??? I really hate to see you physically hurt. The emotional hurt is bad enough.
Ugh... Sometimes I read these stories and I would like to punch a couple of H's and W's. I think I get a bit protective of all you folks here because I see the hurt. It's all so sad sometimes.
The wedding rings are a telling sign. I'd die before my H would ever get my rings. Believe me, it would be over my dead, cold body. That she is really holding onto them is really something to me. She's balking.
Also, let's remember, that your W is putting a lot of faith in the fact that she will somehow get some healing from this new apt. I don't know, surrounded by all your stuff in her new place, sounds pretty lonely to me. I don't think it is going to work out the way she thinks it is.
Anyway, I think you did GREAT this weekend and I don't have a clue how you pulled it off given the weekend you've had. You have a lot to be proud of. You really do and we are so proud of you.
I hate to repeat myself but it bears repeating, can we please stop punching things?
