Dixie, Congratulations on the contact. You see, sometimes it is the little things that make the biggest improvements. I am sooooo happy for you. I don't want to get your hope up to high, but you have made a huge step here and I will tell you why. The entire time my W hid behind the "electronic curtain," our interactions were not very good. So, when I forced her to start calling me, she had to hear my voice. She had to face the man she dumped. I think it got to her. Hearing my voice is hard on her. It makes her think. Plus, it gives me time to DB. On the phone I am cheery and friendly. Keep up the good work.
OK, whats next? What is your next goal? You have to continue to move the bar for yourself each time you reach the finish line. Spend some time this weekend working on that, OK?
And please stop driving yourself crazy with the "what if" scenerios. Don't let your mind be your worst enemy. Yes, it is hard. Believe me, I know. Everytime I call my wife at 10pm and she doesn't answer, I start to freak a bit. Just try to let that turn to something else for now.
Hang in there!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
