Positive things: He signed the card with his own name and my children's signatures,and bought flowers with them for my birthday the Sunday before. He also took a look at my printer which isn't working at the moment with a cheerful attitdue. I need a new parallel printer Linksys thing. (This was 5 days after he dropped the email bomb.) I had a brief chat when he called to say goodnight to the kids. I was chirpy and upbeat and asked about the weather and nicely about his work trip and asked him how things were going and what was new and exciting on that front. That went well ( I thought) I was enthused about the new the new things he was talking about. He seemed to appreciate my interest. He texted me Friday morning to wish me a happy belated birthday. He called last night to say goodnight to the kids, he asked (iirc) how my day went, I told him about our youngest's dental adventure of the day. Saturday, he called, I kept it very brief and matter of fact. "Hello? Oh how are you, right you called to say goodnight. Goodnight, here is _________ bye."
I'm trying not to read too much into this beyond basic courtesy and general interest. I am of the mindset right now, that I have to take him at his word and he means what he says. He wants a divorce. Breaks my heart, but I can't do anything about it.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.