Lost,
Congratulations! It sounds like your Db'ing might be working. Remember my earlier post, he is confused to. If he is on medication, using alcohol and losing weight, all is not well in his world either. But, be careful. Don't let his sudden turn toward you make you break from your DB'ing. Stick with it. If drop your DB'ing, he could turn back the other way. Let him suffer for awhile. He started this crap, let him eat some of it. Let him see how he likes it. I love the fact that you won't let him know what you are doing here. It is probably killing him and that is OK. Keep it up. I am so dang proud of you! Tonight, as you are getting ready for bed, stand in front of the mirror and openly congratulate yourself on a job well done. Let yourself feel good. You deserve it!!!!

Take care!

B.I.T.S.

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...