Me? I actually had a wonderful childhood for many years. I was a late life child, and spoiled crazy, until my mother became ill with cancer when I 10, and died when I was 14. Those years are pretty blurry, but not completely. I like to think they made me a stronger, more resilient person.

My husband was never abused. He might have been embarrassed, as his father was mistakenly diagnosed as schitzophrenic when he was 12 or 13 ( it was bipolar ) and locked away for awhile. Up until then he had been the typical Air Force Brat.

I don't see these as adequate excuses for their actions now. Suck it up and drive on.


ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011