18 Years of Marriage - Leaving in June

[Scared2Def]

I am really seeing that my wife seems to over state things to help/support her position. My wife has continued telling me that the kids are afraid of me and never know when I will flip out on them. When I approach the kids or ask them if this is true, they always say "No" to me. My son has said he is no afraid of me, granted one of the first things I realized once I started my one on one counseling was my short fuse when it came to minor issues mistakes around the house. My wife sill thinks/or at least uses that excuse that I have traumatized our kids to no end and that they will never forgive me. Weird but I know this is her way of trying to justify her feelings of wanting to leave.