Thanks everyone for the advice and support...I can tell already that this forum is going to be crucial to me being able to stick to the plan.
I was wondering what everyone thinks about me calling regularly to talk to our kids. Should I be doing that? What about flying out to see them during the separation? It seems to me that in my case there is a conflict between LRT and putting the kids first. Any ideas are greatly appreciated.
BITS M: 35 W: 35 T14, M11 D9, S6 ILYBINILY: June 09 Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11 W came home: 3/17/11 EE: July 2012 Dropped the rope: Oct 2012 Piecing: April 2013 Not piecing: April 2014 Stuck.