Thanks everyone for the advice and support...I can tell already that this forum is going to be crucial to me being able to stick to the plan.

I was wondering what everyone thinks about me calling regularly to talk to our kids. Should I be doing that? What about flying out to see them during the separation? It seems to me that in my case there is a conflict between LRT and putting the kids first. Any ideas are greatly appreciated.


BITS
M: 35
W: 35
T14, M11
D9, S6
ILYBINILY: June 09
Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11
W came home: 3/17/11
EE: July 2012
Dropped the rope: Oct 2012
Piecing: April 2013
Not piecing: April 2014
Stuck.