Thanks to everyone for the advice and support, I really appreciate it and I know that this forum is going to be very helpful on those really rough days.

I was wondering what everyone thinks as far as me calling my W to talk to the kids? Should I be calling regularly? It seems to me there is a conflict between calling to talk to the kids and LRT. Also, should I take a long weekend to fly back to see them?

BITS
M: 35
W: 35
T14, M11
D9, S6
ILYBINILY: June 09
Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11
W came home: 3/17/11
EE: July 2012
Dropped the rope: Oct 2012
Piecing: April 2013
Not piecing: April 2014
Stuck.