Good for you Dixie. Sounds like you accomplished what you wanted.
Do not drive yourself crazy with thoughts of what he is doing with days off. It will make you go mad. Find something to do that will keep your brain occupied. It doesn't matter what he is doing....right????
I know it is so hard not to think about your sitch but you really have to try for yourself. Make your plan for the next time you have to talk to H...Prepare yourself..at least that is what I do and it seems to help. One day at a time!
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007