You have to not say ANYTHING about this news..I know..trust me! But, ask yourself what will happen after I go off on her about it??? Will it result in anything positive??? Ummmm....NO Then she is pisst at you and XH. Plus, she will be furious and have more reasons to stay away from you. Because, YALL were talking about her!!!
Your anger will clear out...but, she will hold onto that for sure!!!
So, go out and burn it up excercising...that's what I do... I can walk for miles when I'm real mad about all this mess.
But, 1st you gotta get control of your emotions when you see her. You have to do the 180. Be calm and friendly. She knows you best...so ya gotta let it go for now.
Blessings,
Me: 40 H: 39 M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs No kids Seperated: May 18, 2006 EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving. 2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010
