Hi rysmom,

I was just reading the sitch. I'm sorry your going thru all this. But, dont give up...I understand that these dont usually work out the way they thought. Simply put..."The grass is greener on the other side, Till you realize you got mow that one too!" Thats some Texas wisdom...make sense??

You have to be the calm the one that when the OW and him start having issues. They will! That he can come back too...you have to hide your anger from your Son. You must put on a face for him. You do not want to make him feel trapped and dont want him going to his Dads telling him how bad your doing and angry you are. Right???

Easier said than done, I know. But, its the only way right now. I'm praying for you honey!


Me: 40 H: 39
M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs
No kids
Seperated: May 18, 2006
EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving.
2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010