Joel, it's so good you attended sons game and more to come.
How's the car repairs coming? I hope you're doing it to help and be a kind person and the safety of your kids, and not for a reaction from your W. No expectations, right?
I'm inclined to think that every now and then a strategic 'slap' of reality isn't all bad. You just did it in an email. Chin up, move on.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.