I need some serious help. All advice is welcome. I want to save my marriage but I am starting to feel I don't stand a chance. I know my W (or thought I did) and if she left I feel she isn't coming back. It would be a 180 for her to change her mind. Anybody else feel the same about there W.

BITS

M:34 W:28
SD:9
D:6 (pr)
M:3 T:6
Separated 1/16/11
ILYBNILWY 10/25/10
PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10

I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...